50 cards that decode the people in your life
Front: what someone does. Back: the feeling it often hides, what helps, your boundary, and one calm thing to say. Keep it on your phone, or print it.
2 PDFs: print-at-home sheets (Letter/A4, double-sided) and a phone version · secure Stripe checkout
Front and back
Every card is two sides: the behavior you see, and what's really going on.
Ways to use it
In the moment
Someone snaps or goes cold. Open their card on your phone and read the back before you react.
Couples and families
Pull a card each week and talk about it. It makes hard topics easier to start.
Journaling and teaching
Great for self-reflection, coaches, counselors-in-training and classrooms.
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Questions
Is this a physical deck?
Not yet. It's a digital download: print-at-home sheets plus a phone version. Print it on thick card stock for real cards.
How do I print it?
Print double-sided on Letter or A4 and choose "flip on long edge", then cut along the marks. Instructions are on the first page.
Is it the same as the books?
The cards cover the same 50 behaviors as the complete guide, in a quick-reference format. The book goes deeper, with signs, scripts and self-reflection.
What if the file doesn't work?
If your file doesn't arrive or won't open, email us and we'll fix it or refund you.